The one with the relationship smorgasbord

After referencing it many times in recent episodes, we decided it was time to revisit our episode "Define the Relationship" (aka the one with the relationship smorgasbord). In this episode we reflect on our relationship two years later and the one area of the smorgasbord that made us both surprisingly uncomfortable.

There are a lot of of relationship smorgasbords and relationship anarchy tools out there, but you an find the one we used on this page:

We also make reference to our episode "Who's Responsible for Taking Care of Us".


As we mentioned, another version of this episode was released in September of 2021. This version has been edited for time.

The original version of this episode was recorded before Evan changed their name.


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